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Comment on Break up with a married man! by Grace

Grace — Thu, 11 Apr 2013 05:09:30 +0000

Hello ladies!i had an affair with a married for only three months but i fell in love with him.i’m also married.i know it was also my fault for being vulnerable and finding happiness outside of my marriage.he broke up with me because he went back to his wife.he was having a troubled marriage.now,we stayed friends but I’m having a hard time moving on because I’m still in love with him.I need help.thanks

Comment on 10 secret functions of human brain by alexandra salt

alexandra salt — Sun, 16 Sep 2012 11:29:00 +0000

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Comment on Break up with a married man! by Linda

Linda — Sat, 28 Jul 2012 14:10:56 +0000

I am olga and have involve with a mm man for years. At the beginning he told me he has been divorce. I did believe him and later on I found out he has more then 3 mistresses and me beside his wife. He himself has a place for him to bring mistreese over for sex. It looks like he lives there but is not. So do not let him to fool you girls. Some men will bring you to their friend apartment and lie to you that he is sharing an apartment with frieds so that you will offer him to come to your place so that he did not have to pay for the hotel.
I hope you all have to be smart when you meet a new man.
Take care

Comment on Break up with a married man! by Linda

Linda — Sat, 28 Jul 2012 13:55:10 +0000

To all women out there. Please do not trust the married men. They are all big lier. When they go out to seek for sex, they usually do not wear their wedding rings. Some will lie to you that they have been divorce. They will do everything for you until they find another younger woman than they will treat you cold so that you will leave him by yourself so that he can be with the new woman that he just met. They even rent a small apartment to bring you over and have sex with you but he has his house and wife live some where else. So do not let him fool you and think he is single and live in that small apartment. They always keep one place for their private sex activities.

Comment on Iodine deficiency dangers: “hidden hunger” by Jenna

Jenna — Thu, 26 Jul 2012 18:35:23 +0000

Why should salt be used only 10 minutes before the hot cooking ends? Does the melting process help with digestion of the nutrient? Thank you

Comment on Break up with a married man! by Candice

Candice — Wed, 25 Jul 2012 18:27:55 +0000

I too am getting over a relationship with a married man. I have been seeing him for a year, but have known him for 3. I knew what i was getting myself into. I was a virgin at the time and wanted experience, and so he was available for me sexually. Hde was someone I was comfortable with. An since, he kept throwing himself at me, i guess he wore me down. His kindness made me pity him, so one day I just gave in to a weakness. I tried to save myself for marriage by taking a traditional approach…. but this guy was sooooooo different. He made me trust him. By that I mean, I dont trust him, I just trust myself with him. I was able to be myself and open up and tell him things about myself. I am very beautiful physically, and other SINGLE men come after me. But I chose this bastard bc i am a sucker for his kind personality. He doesnt give me anything monetarily. If that means anything… All I know is that he owes me a lot financially… so I am on the losing end here…We just decided on it just being sexual bc i thought of it as a learning experience and that no feelings would get involved. BUt the more I stayed with him, I knew he was a player,he told me about everything. He led me into a world of pure sexual gratification. Into a very dark and highly volatile sexual fantasy that I never in my wildest dreams could have ever experienced with guys my age. The excitement was amazing. I never knew sex would be so good, but after being accustomed to his sexual prowess, I realized that the fantasy was just that… We had sex everywhere safe… We had threesomes, foursomes… with different women…objects… we had sex in crazy places… performed amazing positions… kama sutra style… meaning everything!!!!… I mean if I was going to go to Hell, I wanted to go DEEP…He is the DEVIL and I knew I was already in Hell because I slept with him, so I just went ALL the WAY. The sex is amazing. Though the more I have sex with him, I do see his sexual inadequacies, IE, he needs a bigger dick and needs to lose weight… I tell him what I like, and he does everything… bondage, going down on me, role play, etc… He has created a sexual freak… Yet I have never slept with any other man since I have been with him. I guess I am a sucker for ME being loyal…then I remind myself, how can I know if there is anyone better to gauge the amazing sex… I mean considering he is the only guy I am having sex with… So plain and simple, he is being SELFISH because I cannot grow in any relationship if I am with him. Its true,he has more to gain from being in a relationship with me. I really only see it as sex, but the more times I have sex with him, my feelings get confused at it especially when he brings up the word LOVE.. or having babies with me… or marrying me… pure bull shit really… but the more I hear it, again, I fantasize about the why not? It is a ridiculous thought to even entertain. But I just like hearing it. I may not believe it but I appreciate the words. He was the first one to tell me he loved me. I never said it. HE says it when he is drunk. He says it sober every time he communicates with me. He says it while we have sex. I just shut up. It is like he is forcing me to say it whenever he looks at me. SO I complied, which was very uncomfortable. With me, if I love you, I am going to be with you and have sex with you and not expect anything other than ur love. With him, I think he keeps saying it over and over that he loves me but he never shows me that he does. I know he cares, but LOVE? I doubt it. I do feel and know it is a dead end. But I think bc he feeds my loneliness and he brings me to a dark side that I never felt before. IT is very addicting. I have been reading nonstop how to end these affairs. I even try to analyze my actions daily. I keep myself busy by being productive in other things. But then like I said it is addictive. I havent seen in in 3 months. HE continues to be clingy. I tried the dating scene with other great and fun SINGLE men, but I couldnt open to them. The only person I could trust with my feeling is a married man. Its tragic. I know. Bc I dont trust men. And the man I trust is a man I would never trust having. And then when a guy == potential good guy comes my way, I block him and am not reciprocating his feelings, I feel terrible. And I know the reason why I feel terrible is because I have feelings for the married guy and my heart cannot divide so easily unless I clean my shit up. I told him this last night. I told him to stop contacting me. I told him to leave me alone. I just have this feeling that I will never find a man who loves me bc I cant trust men no matter what. The married guy kept sweet talking me and being soooo kind and understanding, but my guts were telling me he is lying to me… and thats probably the reason why I stay with him bc I KNOW he is a liar and a cheat. I knew that. I never wanted him to leave his wife, and I just accepted him. But he is making it difficult by bringing up his feelings when I dont bring up any of mine. I am trying my best to follow the advice Ive read online, like cutting off ties… which I did… when I stopped seeing him… I am too embarassed of myself. He brought me to a dark place an immoral place that I am not proud of. He is using me for my beauty, youth, and smarts. I only wanted to use him for sex, bc he made me so comfortable and he makes my time with him fun and exciting and loving… but I know it is just temporary and I dont want that. I want him to tell me… I am a bitch for ignoring him… that way it would be easier to let go. But it never is…. he just stays the same. He is kind… very kind to me… but I know I cannot have his heart 100% and my deepest fear is that when I do find a great SINGLE guy I wouldnt know how to love him bc I stole someone elses love.

Comment on 15 tips to get married soon by shifa

shifa — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 22:07:49 +0000

Wow,,, thats Great and tuff too….bt i can do this for ma man..

Comment on Break up with a married man! by Tena

Tena — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 03:53:39 +0000

Ok so I have finally had it! So my situation is pretty bad. I had a baby with a married man we have been messing around for about 8 Years but have been “Together” for about 5. He stays with me the majority if the time. Very rarely does he go to his house where his mother and there wife live! Picture that! He thinks im stupid like I don’t know she lives there. I can’t take it no more. We barely ever touch eachother anymore. We went to the Poconos and spent only one hour out of the three days ……….. So what did we go for?!!! He used to be really controlling but every since i had my so he has loosened up a bit. But he’s not considerate at all to my time my Childs time my money and anything else that has to do with us. We always come last and he’s never around. I’m always stuck in the house with this baby and i am going crazy…… I guess i just needed to tell someone other than myself because im embarrassed to tell anyone.

Comment on Break up with a married man! by Lashon

Lashon — Sun, 05 Feb 2012 19:35:17 +0000

hello ladies, I finally got the strength to break up with my married man, I felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest repeatedly. How could things have changed and I wasn’t in on the change, but I felt every bit of it, I just didn’t want to believe. I thought because I treated him better, I would win, NOT. It got to the point where I didn’t have enough strength to fight a battle I kept losing. Karma is a bitch, and Im paying for every bit of my actions because I could have and should have walked away the first day he approached. Im learning a hard lesson. I never thought I would put myself in a predicament like this. Now Im cryin like someone died. I just want to feel normal again. Its been almost two weeks, why do I feel like crap still, I NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO

Comment on 10 reasons why men abandon women by Mark McKinley

Mark McKinley — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 23:52:16 +0000

“Oh ladies we take too much to heart ” Lol! At least this gave me a good laugh! It looks like a list written by a third grader, and if it is, good job to him for being so observing of his male elders!