How often do you catch yourself thinking about your feelings to a partner? Sometimes these thoughts attend you regularly, and you follow the way your relationship develops and your feelings to him change. Check your feelings with the help of “If” theory. So …

If you are easy and fun with your friend, if his words cause your lovely smile, and sometimes even joyous laughter, and you want to be carefree and take a dip in childhood, remember all your antics and mischief, you want to joke in response and find pleasure in shades of witty phrases - then he certainly causes a sense… of Humor.

26761154_1187881115_loveIf being in a society of familiar people, you notice their envious views, and all friends state you are a great couple and look good together, that you are simply created for each other - and you are giddily pleased to hear all this - it means you have a sense … of Pride.

If you feel your power over a partner and you feel a real pleasure due to his eternal devotion and confidence, so that you have a rest in soul - then you are seized by a sense … of Possession.

If you’re looking at your man talking with other ladies, being gallant and attentive to them with a sinking heart, if at a party he presented slow dances not only to you, if your girlfriends are admiring him as a real perfection, and you feel awful - then you know a feeling … of Jealousy.

If you fel good next to a man who is always ready to sincerely listen to you, regardless of the subject you are talking on, and empathizes both joys and failures with you, and you feel well due to his kind and gentle words; you know you can rely on him and can trust him, because he will always understand, support, not betray, never leave you in difficult moments, and you appreciate this relationship, then this is a great feeling … of Friendship.

If you’re always glad to see a man that likes you, are happy to his words, smile, attention, if even a dull day becomes lighter due to him - then he certainly wakes a sense … of Joy.

If you are sympathetic and caring toward your friend, he awakens tenderness in you, and you want to give him generous attention, and even sometimes be warning in deeds, then you have a generous sense of … Warmth.

If you cannot stop looking at your beloved, literally cannot stay without him, and even worship him, if his actions cause only your endorsement, and notice no shortcomings in him, everything is smooth and perfect for you, then you sense a feeling of… Adoration.

If you are full of dedication and ability to understand, can accept and even forgive, learned how to wait (of course in the name of something), subjugate yourself to circumstances and overcome them - you wisely came to the sense of … Patience.

If you’re really afraid of losing your loved one, you are constantly thinking about the possibility of parting and loss of your relationship, and you think you will never find the strength to survive such thing, as life will inevitably lose all meaning and even will be finished for you ( !) - then this is unequivocally a sense of… Fear.

If you stick to your gentle, kind and good man, if you’re more than satisfied with your smooth, warm, kind and calm relationship, you are serene and completely satisfied - then it is a feeling of… Habit.

If you are absolutely sure he will not leave you, everything is wonderful and willing more is at least just stupid - it is a sense of… Blase.

But only when you try to push aside all these feelings, for the second plan, and something much more higher still remains in your soul, more valuable and cleaner - then this is what is the sense of … LOVE.

Because Love is not looking for its own!

Love is primarily a victim. And yet this is work, daily and thorough work. And first of all work on yourself!

Love is when you are well due to the fact your loved man feel well.

True love never ceases to exist!

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