Since the beginning of spring, as you know, cats are beginning to roar in sexually obscene voices, calling for a local cat. Men are same cats, they just do not roar. And spring - is time for dating …
I would like to define terms. What is the difference between acquaintance with the aim of marriage to dating? If you think carefully, there is no difference. There are no just dates. A woman always thinks of marriage on the subconscious.
Even if a woman says: “I have no far-reaching plans!” Do not believe, she is evil. Suppose she does not dream of legal marriage and obligations after wedding. But she certainly wants attention, love and constancy, not meetings from time to time. Suppose she does not need to be a mistress, cook meals and domestic issues to deal with this man, but she needs to know that in the evenings someone is waiting for her, that she will not be alone on the weelend.
It was considered that the initiative should come from men. But when was that? Those “knight” times went to immemorial past, and no one remembers them. A modern writer Margaret Kent wrote in her book “How to marry”: “No man will knock on your door and offer to marry him. If you are looking for a man, take the initiative in your own hands. Go where there where there are men, but choose the places that do not work against you. ”
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Places “working against you” is worth mentioning separately. For these these are the 2 traditional dating sites for the purpose of marriage, which, strange as it may seem, approach for this least of all. It’s the difference in views. Women choose these places first of all, and men are least expected to meet their future wives. This contradiction, of course, reduce women’s chances to naught.
The first place is a bar / cafe / restaurant. The second - dating sites. Almost certainly you will find no candidates here. Men have very different goals there and categorically do not want to find among the visitors of bars / cafes / restaurants their future wives.
We will offer you ideas from real life.
Idea 1 - romantic.
Come to parties. To friends, colleagues, friends of friends, not from close environment. To get to the party, use any excuses. Music, semidarkness, strangers among friends. Looks, touches, talks about anything. Solitude in dance, flirt with a glass of wine.
Idea 2 - pragmatic.
Look for a partner according to your interests. If you like to read and expect to meet a spiritually rich person, start visiting bookstores. There is a high probability to meet there worthy candidates.
If you want a stay-at-home man, ahead - in the supermarkets. Visit them on a certain day at the same time. And you will begin to recognize their regular patrons, and permanence - it is a good quality for a future husband.
If music is your passion, visit music cafes, if poetry - poetry clubs. Do you like tennis, swimming, bowling, billiards, archery, horse riding? Make it your hobby, to meet a man of your dream during classes.
Idea 3 - adventurous.
Go on a trip. Although for 2 weeks, at least for a week, at least 3 days. Where - does not matter. The attractiveness of such visits is that tourists - peculiar people, this is a kind of caste, people in the nation. You will meet a suitable person to you in spirit.
Idea 4 - realistic.
Mine of brides - your work. I do not mean employees of your company. There are also suppliers, customers, other clients. It does not matter, whether they come to your office or call - all can provide the ground for friendship. And yet there are employees from neighboring companies renting offices in the same building as your company. A cup of coffee, cigarette, photocopying, sending faxes, advice on computer programs.
Idea 5 - fantastic.
принципе, можете просто поверить в чудо и отдаться на волю судьбе. Basically, you can simply believe in a miracle and give yourself to the will of fate.
It is not the fact that this spring will be crucial for you. But the process of “wedding game” will bring you a lot of pleasant minutes. And it is better to start in spring, when the whole nature promotes this. Forward and upward! Good luck!