It happened that women typically want to marry, but men tend to not want to marry. And we, women, have to depend on their man’s benevolence. But if you know man’s weakness …
To get started, let’s try to understand why men do not hurry to marry?
I think, because marriage is a kind of obligation. Loud or unspoken - it is unimportant, but obligation. And what oppresses men especially, these obligations are endless, and over time they become more numerous - wives are creative in this sense. While women infringe male rights more and more. “Have free time - give it to your family. Want sex - do not oppress me. Do not like how I look - make me not getting tired.” A list of such phrases is inexhaustible. So it turns out that by marrying a man gets into bondage, where there are only duties and no rights, but the feeling that combined the two before marriage - all these romantic feelings and passions, madness, disappear. So why do men need such “happiness”?
Of course, I understand men are not angels, and their brain should also be chamged in the right direction. But they are they, and this is a topic of other conversation. And we are we, still talking about how to get what we want.
Perhaps many will be surprised, but I am convinced that in order to get married soon, you should not hurry to marry and think about marriage. The most important thing is to build such relations with a man, in which a desire to formalize them as marriage will be a purely formal side, but, in fact, already a fait accompli.
I will name 15 major principles (or methods of tactical or cunning tricks, call them as you want), by which you will force a man to make you a long-awaited proposal.
1. Convince him that you do not wait for his proposal to marry.
Men are like children in a transitional age, so they need this assurance that they will decide themselves. Any pressure in an explicit or unspoken desires is very painful. They strive to do everything vice versa. But the worst: your expectation for his proposal will be clearly perceived as the beginning of bondage.
2. Let him know he is not your last chance, and you have a choice
Nothing enhances a desire to express rights to women, like presence of other applicants to her. The spirit of competition fuels men’s ambitions. In the fire fight, he even forgets about all possible disadvantages of marriage for a while.
3. Be a model of style, charm and grace
Perhaps, there is no man who would not care how his beloved looks. Besides, most men need to realize that their woman is the best.
4. Become a perfect lover
Sex will always be in the first place, when a man thinks of woman. But do not forget: things that firstly excite and bring pleasure because of novelty, may stop baiting over time. It is therefore very important that sex would be on the first place for woman, as well as for man. Then you can become an ideal lover for ever.
5. Attract him through comfort of home
Every man wants to have back, harbor, house as a fortress. So like after all the cases to come to where you are well and safe, where as you like. If your home gives this comfort, a man will surely want this comfort to become comfort of his home, and you will be waiting for him at home.
6. Cook dishes for him
You can dispute whether there is a way to a man’s heart through his stomach. But the fact that smell, look and taste of good food are attractive, is true. And perhaps this is due not only to pleasure of stomach filling, but also psychological reasons, a number of emerging associations: a feast - sufficiency and well-being; hospitality - mental company.
7. Show your love for children
A man will never marry a woman, if he does not want to have children from her. Help him seeing a tender and caring mother in yourself. Communicate with other children at his presence.
8. Involve his hobbies
Men’s interests seem silly, until you look at them from the side. But when you become a football or boxing fan, start being interested in developments in the country and world, you will feel how exciting and useful it is. You should know, nothing unites people like joint passion.
9. Strongly emphasizes his advantages
Men like recognition of their merits. They need to be praised. In doing so, they are again, as children. This flatters them and gives confidence for future performances.
10. Do not rebuke him for his shortcomings
Hearing reproaches is unbearable for men. Especially from women. It seems demeaning to them. Even if criticisms are valid. But, by the way, if you want to change a man, do not use accusations, but act gradually, so that a man would like to change himself.
11. Consult with him more often
When you ask a council from a man, it is like a balm on a wound for him - he a priori considers himself smarter than you. Do not destroy his illusions. And if his advice does not fit you, do not argue with him, later you will act the way you want. Man, as a rule, will not track your deeds, only your questions are important for him.
12. Do not complain to him
Nobody likes constant complaints. But men are especially annoyed. They would be happy to complain to somebody, but the status of a “strong sex” does not allow. And if someone complains to him, it is a disaster. Protect your man from unnecessary troubles. If not you, he will find another one.
13. Understand him in everything
Happiness - it’s when you are understood. This simple formula is the basis for any marriage. Without this, nothing will last. You cannot live with a man, not trying to, first of all, understand him. Even when you see he is not right, try to understand cause of his delusion.
14. Learn being always in good spirits
There are so many reasons spoiling men’s mood in life, and when they have a woman who is always in good mood - this only fact is already valuable. And if you still learn how to restore his good mood, you will become the only one.
15. Give him freedom
This is the most difficult, but a prerequisite. Your appearance in a man’s life should not deprive him of his liberty, which is very expensive. This is a stumbling block to ihis entry into marriage. Moreover, you cannot keep a man in possession through deprivation of liberty.
You heard, perhaps, the term “converse effect”? Converse effect is appropriate in marriage. Those who shout “Hey, husbands!!!”, hear an echo of their cry in response. And only those who are ready to go long in search of love and understanding, find marital happiness very soon.