We often complain of feeling sick, but whether you sometime heard your friend’s complaints to sexual health? No? And meanwhile such problems are still much more widespread. And what is their reason? Wish to know – read below.

Sex has two basic main enemies: bad health and bad relations with partner. Managements on correction and improvement of sexual life, as a rule, give not enough attention to these aspects. Meanwhile building and supporting a harmonious union in all senses is an art you can learn, as well as an art to build and support good health.

As a rule, these are same factors, which damage health in general, age us earlier.

1. Smoking, even passive, that is inhalation of other’s tobacco smoke, as a whole is more dangerous, than moderate consumption of alcohol.

2. Adiposity and infringements of health connected with it — a frequent reason of sexual dysfunctions, especially for man.

3. Improper feeding, shortage of vitamins and protein — rather a widespread problem. In young years natural hypersexuality outweighs this lack, but later both desires and possibilities begin to decline sharply, because of inadequate food. However, majority of people consider this recession a natural phenomenon or find other explanations to it, frequently accusing a partner of these problems.

4. Chronic exhaustion and stress — are almost most destructive factors for family harmony. Wives of businessmen and in general occupied succeeding husbands know this well. Men in the most blossoming, active age, not having problems with food and vitamins, frequently suffer full sexual apathy because of constant stress and overfatigue.

5. There are also especially sexual problems. You should struggle actively with them, including experts’s help. One of the most widespread sexual problems for women — secondary (that is arisen during life) absence of orgasm, colpospasm (spasms and painful sensations during sexual intercourse) — give in to correction in 90 % of cases.

6. Men often suffer from premature ejaculation, depending on form, it is treated in 78-82 % of cases. You just should know that this is illness, it is necessary to address to a doctor, as well as with any other disease, it is better not to start it.

7. But nevertheless, we are the main enemies of sexual health and harmony, more precisely, our low culture of mutual relations. A man who believes that he carried out all his obligations, having reached a REGISTRY OFFICE, which evades from help on economy and does not care of his appearance, is capable to cause disappointment and cooling to all men in general in a woman of not too rough temperament. More ardent one, of course, will try to find a replacement to him.

8. A wife who aspires to win in a dispute with her husband by all means, which constantly criticises and humiliates him, behaves short-sighted. Her today’s victory is her tomorrow’s defeat. If her husband ceases seeing a woman in her, an object of sexual desires, she will be guilty here. Aggressive behaviour, rivalry, jealousy, quarrels because of money, inability to reckon with interests of other one destroy sexual harmony.

Problem root

However, majority of us searches for a problem root in absolutely other things. Women are especially inclined to rely on purely external attributes. It seems to them that a new dress or liposuction can solve their personal problems. Sometimes this illusion is supported by men, criticising appearance of a  girlfriend and making compliments to other women. However, more often behind this criticism there is only a man’s insult on an attention lack, his low self-estimation, own problems.

And if a woman shows more interest to a husband instead of creating complexes in herself, regrets and indulge him, a question of liposuction will dissapear by itself. To be convinced of it, it is enough to look at happy, harmonious couples, where no changes in appearance of partners influence their feelings and mutual relations.

Self-perfect

Good lovers are not born, you can become a good lover during life. In a sexual life, as well as in life in general, all seldom goes smoothly. Everyone has liftings and recessions, there are bright, unforgettable moments and “hibernation” periods. You always should remember it, not to create impressions that all best is behind. By the way, those who perceive sexual life as creativity area, who studies and searches during whole life, usually do not complain of boredom and apathy, absence of stimulus and desires.

The same with sex: either you improve and grow, or degrade and hand over positions. Majority of people understands this thesis well with reference to professional sphere. Everyone knows: if you wish to be a master in your business, it is necessary to continue to master new constantly. This gives self-trust, helps struggling with boredom and monotony. But the same also concerns all aspects of our life, including relations with a partner. At last this sphere ceased being isolated, forbidden. It can be discussed, corrected, improved.

Good lovers are not born, but become

There is a popular series of educational video films, which motto is: «Good lovers are not born, but become». These films are ordered by mail, and their basic consumers — not ardent and self-confident youth, but just spouses with experience, wishing to improve intimate life.

In this case your desire to grow and improve is important, receive more pleasure from life and give more pleasures to your loved one. In effect, only this is important. All the rest can be thought up, order by mail or buy in a drugstore.