If you wish to become a Superwoman, impregnable and ideal, add to your arsenal some practical advice to be not only in the ranks of fair sex, but also on a level with strong:

1 - End of all affairs

In criminal teleserials fruitless tasks which will be never closed, are named cold cases. As a rule, you remember about your cold cases in inopportune moments: before a dream, during sex, at the height of a working day…

And meanwhile it is necessary to act in another way. Allocate three days off and complete everything that is possible. Pay municipal accounts, visit, at last, gynecologist, finish a skirt, which you cut 2 years ago. When you get off thoughts, which pursued you many months, you will become impregnable, like Dunkan Mclaud.

2 – Cultural and without tears

Buy all disks and films which, in your opinion, should be necessarily in your house. In a weak moment you can put favourite music or a film and forget about everything and after that your mood will necessarily change.

3 - Own project

People seldom think what they will be engaged further in. Therefore they also sit on one place for ten years. And after all you never know what will turn out, if you suddenly to realize your children’s dream and be engaged seriously in drawing, or singing, or learn to make dolls, or go round all Europe by bus…

Such inventions allow you developing. Take a calendar and lead this day round: this day will be officially considered as a day of the beginning of the project.

4 - Generosity

A strong person is the one who has everything - possibilities, attention, money. And if you share with everyone, you will keep nothing. Actually all occurs exactly on the contrary: when you give more than you take, you become stronger.

A scientific explanation to this fact is not found yet.

5 - Diary

If you get a habit to write down (or sketch) that occurs to you every day, you always will be engaged in a long turn or just cold evening. You will not have to call a girlfriend and listen, what genius her present boy friend is.

Though I always did not like this name – a diary and furthermore, writing down all event successively, but writing experiences and sore on a paper – is a real pleasure! And the main thing - it is useful.

6 - Just rest

From such simple employment as rest, as a rule, forces increases. But rest is not dances in club and not Saturday washing with cleaning. Rest is when there is no thoughts. Any. When you do not look in the future further a supper. Well, when you had a real rest last time?

Of course, I can have a rest with my friends, but I’m always pulled on conversation about past and unpleasant, you get tired and strained, is loaded by old problems. An exit from this situation – a trip somewhere without girlfriends, where there are no philosophical conversations, and is relaxation for brains.

7 – Care of parents

If your parents are soft-core, do not manipulate you and demand you spending each days off on a summer residence with them, like a reindeer, digging out backs under snow, the thought that care is necessary to them, can not come to your head still for a long time.

But the best time to begin - now. Think, what they cannot do for themselves.

8 - Guru

Understand, whom you wish to be similar to and in what. It is not necessarily to invent an idol.

If you study at each person whom you see in front of yourself, - you will be the best.

9 - Exit from a shell

To influence an external world, change it - this is what is called a man’s force, not muscles at all. Look around. All suits you? Then change nothing. But there are cases, when it would be desirable to make world around a little nicer.

If suddenly it seemed to you that your microdistrict would be decorated with a good confectioner’s shop, think, whether you wish to become that person who will open it.

I personally was always irritated with grey walls of sleeping areas, it would be desirable to take in hands a bottle with paint and decorate this world!

10 - Drive

Drive - a word meaning fun and even triumph. Understand what forces you exulting, you can even write down such things on a leaflet as much as possible. Get it each time you are sad. Memoirs on how good it was, when you danced in a club till morning with your friends, probably, will make you happy, and this means, strong.

And it is better to go where you feel good, quite at home.

11 - Help to others

All is simple: people are divided on those who are helped, and those who help. Who from them is strong and who is weak, is clear without explanations.

12 - Ability to ask about help

But after all only weak ask for help, you will tell. No, weak are afraid to ask a girlfriend coming at night - what if she refuses?

Actually, having called a girlfriend, mum or boyfriend and having declared fairly that their help is necessary to you today, you will overcome crisis quicker. The main thing - not to repeat this request too often.

13 - Thoughts on the future

Every day do something that as it seems to you, can bear fruits in the future. It can be anything you like: for example, foreign language studying. I, for example, am going to be engaged in my health, and in pleasant sense, and learn hairdresser’s art professionally.

There are days when you will make nothing for tomorrow. You feel not bad, even very good. But you can feel yourself strong only in those days, when there is something that will have development in the future.

14 - Meditation

Five minutes of loneliness - even in the most loaded days, even in the presence of mutual mad love are necessary to each person. Agree?

15 - Men

Wonder, whether you have enough men in your environment. A woman needs man’s compliments like breath of life. And choral singing of girlfriends concerning your new jacket will not replace them. When you feel sexual, you feel strong.

16 - Restraint

Sometimes there is no other way to achieve your goal, except telling «ok!» at that second, when you would like to tear an interlocutor on one thousand small bear cubs. You will tell this later. Later. If you want. For now let allow him doing what is required from him.

17 - Loneliness

There are too many conventions in a city. But if you learn taking pleasure in single swimming on cinemas and cafes, then no marriage is terrible to you: you are self-sufficient.

18 - Pain

Pain can be very unpleasant, sometimes we cry, but it is not a tragedy. Women know better than men that there is pain, which needs to be experienced. And this is, by the way, their force.

19 - Orgazm

Men are often weakened by sex, they would like to have a sleep, and there are examples, which in general concern this a hard work. A woman also would like to sleep after orgasm, but often she feels too good to sleep. And when she is good - she is strong.

20 – Laughter and self-irony

Telling an amusing story from your private life to employees – what can be more harmless, and people will have fun.

21 - Love

An enamoured woman is capable on everything. That is absolute. The main thing is to find whom to fall in love with!

22 - Secret

There are unpleasant secrets, which you do not admit to anybody. But they did not make anybody stronger. Let your secret be positive.

And there should be many such secrets. Tell that you are going to buy some bread, and go to a pizzeria nearby your house, order coffee, sit and dream. And it is not obligatory to tell about it. There should be some riddle in any woman.

But this are words, you should start acting, just do what is necessary! Remember, to become stronger, it is necessary to act!