Date … such exciting and long-awaited. Finally there is someone who initially does not cause irritation in you and even disposes to dialogue and, if you are very lucky, you even want something bigger. So, you are going for a date …What you need to consider to avoid disappointments? Here are10 rules that will help you.

1. Be objective initially and do not cherish illusions. Do not think a great romantic love is waiting for you behind each unexpected meeting. If you apprehend it too seriously or will expect more from a partner, than he is ready to give, most likely, you will frighten him off.

2. Do not forget about your own self-estimation! Believe in yourself! Ignore stereotypes and complexes! Smile! Only radiating such power, you will create a situation, in which any man will not resist your charm.

3. Do not prolong the first appointment. You should disappear earlier, than he starts feeling bored. Do you know many lonely women’s mistake? When they are carried away with someone, they strive to spend every minute with the object of their passion.

4. In connection with told above, be late for a date, allow him waiting for a while (just do not go too far!).

5. At the same time, be flexible as for meetings. Show understanding, if circumstances compel a man changing plans at the last moment or canceling a meeting.

6. Communication is a very important point during the first date. Allow a man to be uttered, tell about himelf. Learn about his interests, hobbies, and, certainly, take good note. All this will be useful to you in future.

7. Do not take a defensive position, assuming that each man you meet will attack you. And a man should know that this is just good pastime without any commitments. Just be open and friendly.

8. Do not carp too much! Some ladies leave men, because they have too big head, too tart cologne or too sharp-nosed boots. Give them a chance to be corrected, otherwise you will banish a fine person because of some trifle.

9. If you really like someone, do not wait, until he calls or makes the first step, take situation in your hands. Otherwise, as it often occurs, this will be a time waste.

10. Disagree to continue the first date at a man’s house, even if all bars are overflowed, restaurants are closed, there are snowstorm and blizzard outside, and taxi passes by boorishly.

Well and, the most important thing, - do not forget: it is better to sit at home in proud loneliness, than dating absolute losers! Besides, remember, if you lower a lath of requirements, you can marry already tomorrow. So, do not lower the bar. It is better to wait counting for something deserved, than wasting time on something that will not hold on.