A skill to spend the first date the right way is not an art at all. The main is to remember simple facts. If you observe following simple rules, you can significantly increase your chances to develop romantic relationships.
Allow your body speaking for you
This means you can win your partner’s heart through mere weather conversation. For this your body should send several hidden positive signals. First of all, open pose - do not hide from your interlocutor through crossing arms, then, hyaline reproduction of your interlocutor’s pose help to create feeling of rapprochement.
Besides, it is useful to master manners, accentuating your masculinity or feminity, for example, putting hands in pockets to open chest area. You also can use “dance of gestures”, synchronizing your action with the object’s actions: for example, you can drink from a glass simultaneously with him.
Experience fear together
Nothing can rally people better, as some extreme situation they experience together. Dramatic atmosphere can stimulate your private life.
The matter is there is a close connection between anxiety, excitement and passion. This does not mean the first date should take place in extreme atmosphere, a trip to an amusement park will be a good cause for adrenalin splash.
You also can watch some thriller together, however, there is one moment: if a pretty person seems even more attractive in a stressful atmosphere, than an ugly one repels even more.
Wash together
Love and laughter go hand in hand. Sense of humor is on the top of the list of main qualities partners search in each other. Mutual experience, causing laughter, creates sense of closeness between people.
American psychologists carried out an experiment, when strange people had to do play activity together, for example, learning dance, one the partners was blindfold, another one had a straw in his mouth to prevent him from speaking. It sounds stupid, but it turned out that love and laughter really go hand in hand. Probably, you should not make your partner blindfold on the first date, but you really can try set him laughing.
Find appropriate sound accompaniment
By all appearances, musicians, playing advance guard jazz, are the unhappiest people in the world. Research showed that relationships develop the best way while calm easy music is playing.
Looking at men’s photos, women found them more attractive, if they were listening to soft-rock while doing this, not the sounds of advance guard jazz or stayed in peace. So, you should not better attend a serious music concert at the first date.
Use love elixir
A man went to the space and dipped to the bottom of an ocean, but he still could not invent love elixir. Really, causing sincere feelings due to chemical interference is impossible. However, there are ways to affect attitude to yourself. Unfortunately, or, maybe, fortunately, most of them are illegal or difficult.
Such banned products, as cocaine or amphetamine, can stimulate sense of euphory, appearing while amorousness, increasing level of dopamine. However, you should not commit an offence in the name of love, joint run will be much better.
Another neurotransmitter, phenethylamine, is called a “love molecule”, as it causes sense of excitement and vague augury. Phenethylamine is contained in chocolate and also connected with pleasant sensations after physical exercising.
Look into each other’s eyes
Any flirt knows that visual contact is an act, exceptional as for its emotional influence. Now psychologists proved how powerful weapon it is. They asked couples of strange people looking into each other’s eyes, and it’s no surprise, they developed a stronger feeling of intimacy, than after looking at each other’s hands.
What astonished scientists most of all, is the fact that after their experiments a couple of test persons, who did not know each other before, decided do marry after the experiment. Scientists assure there is no magic here: when we meet with someone’s look, a part of brain, connected with reward obtainment is excited.
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