Some decent girls ask men about his family status at once while meeting. And they even hope to hear an honest answer. Naïve ones. If he likes you a lot, he will definitely say he is not married. You will start dating, planning your wedding and children. And suddenly you will know the truth. A “fiancé” is burdened with a numerous family, including wife, mother-in-law, children and even grandchildren. And you are a mistress, not even suspecting of your ‘interesting” position. Men just search for jollies they miss in everyday life with a wife. However, you can get him pegged on any stage of your communication.
Stage of acquaintance
Any secret agent, even a deeply married one, knows woman’s weak points and uses this knowledge actively. Here are tricks he uses to start an affair with you:
He offers rich cultural-romantic program: park, café, cinema and other places for loved couples. He misses novelty and exility in his relationships, so he is especially gallant, sentimental and inventive towards you.
He shows you “serious intentions” saying something like “Ah, what a miracle I’ve found you! This is my destiny”, “It seems I’ve known you for my whole life” etc. he really starts believing these words. He passes from words to other signs.
He looks into your eyes sincerely. And he does it all the time. Most men are assured “eyes will say more than words”. Guys who hide something from you like this trick especially. It is good if he hides a million from you. But, as a rule, this is another woman. It is very important for him to be valued and accepted the way he is, with all aggravating circumstances.
He shows warmth, care and thrift. Cooks supper carefully, helps hanging washing, accompanies you while shopping resignedly. Most likely, he just asserts himself this way. Wife nags because of everyday problems and he does his best at your house to spite her. Wife is a bad bore, and you are a wonderful fairy.
He makes plans for the future, but not very big, only for nearest days. He promises arranging your cornice, going out somewhere – theatre, museum etc.
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A married man behaves not the way a fiancé does. He presents no flowers. At best – a box of candies. A “male” shows his generosity and solvency to his future wife. Mistress should not expect this. He does his best to keep the secret. Probably, you will receive gifts later, after you agree to be a legal mistress. Then he will relax and treat you as a second wife. And now he offers exceptionally man’s help.
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Expose him
Tactics for brave ones. Show him you are a sprightly girl and do not mind an affair with a married man. Then he will easily admit his family status.
Tactics for not so brave ones. Touch a subject of fidelity in relationships. Say your opinion about “rascals who cheat”. If this subject is close to him, it will cause a hot reaction – positive or negative.
Tactics for shy ones. Delay beginning of intimate relationships. If he is married, he will be off quietly.
What happens when an agent is discovered?
If relationships are not too close yet, probably, he will hasten to disappear, growling out: “Well, sorry”. But, most likely, he will want to continue relationships after exposure. Do you need a role of legal mistress? It is you to decide. You should remember your hero needs an intrigue all the time and soon he will start searching for a new one. Probably, he will even promise you divorcing his wife. Psychologists say this process can last for about 10 years. Especially if a wife takes urgent measures to keep her husband.
Beginning of relationships
Prick up your ears, if your newly Brad Pitt does following things:
Strives going out your apartment during your first night: smoking, checking car, shopping etc. In fact, he just calls his wife to tell a story.
He does not stay for the night using various reasons.
He does not invite you to his house. Every normal hunter brings a bag in his den. If he does not, this means den is taken.
Sometimes he goes to other room to answer his mobile. After conversation he becomes clearly irritated, and does not say a reason to you.
He switches off his mobile while staying at your place.
While conversation he mostly listens to you and asks questions. He speaks little about himself and tells only general information.
He does not give you his home phone number and address.
He does not want staying in your friends’ company and does not like crowd in general. He is afraid to meet acquaintances.
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He is 100% married if he does not answer calls or messages after 10 pm. Or switches off the phone. This is an assured test on his unoccupied state.
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How to expose him
Present him a Valentine card: a trinket or a sticker-heart, pendant for auto keys. If this gift is still on its place during following days, most likely he is free.
Offer him visiting his place suddenly.
Romance stage
How to discover a “double agent”, if you have been together for a long already:
You still did not see his parents and even speak on the phone.
You meet only on your territory.
He often goes to business-trips, but tells nothing after comeback.
From time to time he speaks about some imaginary female disadvantages you do not have.
He accentuates his value in your life and soleness of your relationships.
His goods and chattels often disappear from your house for some time and then come back. You cannot find his favorite T-shirt for a week, and then you see him wearing it, clean and fresh. This is a “hello!” from his wife.
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His main oddity on this stage is in money. He saves on your common expenses, you do not know how much his salary is. He often buys something in a shop and drags it to an undisclosed location, not in your cosy home. He explains that it is a present for his parents etc. Or keeps silence.
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How to expose him
Ask him introducing you to his parents and other close relatives. If he refuses, have your will.
8 signs of franc tireur
1. He brings you to his home at once. Any man feels uncertain with a new girlfriend. At home he will feel more comfortable.
2. He speaks a lot and extols himself softly-softly.
3. After intimacy he starts meddling in your affairs actively: calls in the middle of a working day, writes messages to know how you are and says about his warm feeling.
4. He starts making common plans for summer vacation (especially if it is autumn now).
5. He introduces you to his friends and relatives willingly.
6. He has a serious hobby, and maybe, several ones. Brolly hops, paddling, rock-climbing etc.
7. He brings you flowers for a second or third date.
8. He presents you material gifts: jewelry and other sweet knick-knackery.