Ah, we are so bad, according to your words, darling ladies. A man should be a regular rascal to abandon one of you. You think it is normal changing men, like gloves, finding a hundred of disadvantages. We will try to clear out 10 general reasons why we say you “good-bye”.
Of course, you can simplify a problem and say that men want an ideal woman, who would cook for them, do a house, satisfy in bed completely and realize various wishes, and besides, she should be intelligent and modest. But this is not truth. In most cases woman is at least half-responsible for a break-up. So, we go away, when…
1. A woman becomes uninteresting
No matter in which things: talks or sex. A man always searches for a woman, whom he could talk to and have a good sex with. Of course, those men, who search a one-night stand, are not very interested in a woman’s IQ. But if we speak about long-term relationships, then we want to see only quite intelligent women near us.
A woman should not be more intelligent than a man, as in this case he would feel an inferiority complex. But he also does not need a stupid woman, interested only in serials and female magazines.
Conclusion: a woman should be an actress to show herself the way a man wants seeing her.
You should also be quite liberated in sex. Excess constraint will force a man searching for someone else, and excess activity – thinking whether a good half of the city is aware of his wife’s bed talents?
2. They could not get on together
You think your man like you, but different trifles provoke scandals. You cannot find a compromise and mutual concessions. There’s only one way out – parting. A man likes being a leader, so he wants his woman conceding him in conflicts. Further she should choose – if her present partner is dear to her, she will have to concede.
Anyway, if you do not have an ideal figure and delicate mind, you should not hope a man is ready for everything because of you. It will be much easier for him finding an alternative.
3. A woman is violent
A man will hardly like blushing for his partner, if she suddenly starts behaving in inadequate manner in public, clouding himself. And there’s also no sense living with such unpredictable woman.
Conclusion: learn controlling yourself.
4. A woman run wild in past
Female libertinism is treated negatively. So, before you change partners roughly in youth, think about what you are going to do after 30, when it is already more difficult finding a good man, and absolutely everyone knows about your rough past.
A man wishes being the first, at least not 51st. And he certainly does not want all his friends having a certain experiment with his woman.
Conclusion: think about future since the moment of pubescence. Of course, if you do not want spending whole life being lonely. Youth is not for ever.
5. A woman uses man like a safety-valve
She tells him about her problems, matters, actions every day. Of course, sharing disturbing questions and events is necessary, but still you should know when to stop.
When you call a guy in the night and say you love him and are ready to do everything for him, this can become irritating with time. And if you are telling him you bought a 15th pair of shoes on a sale and earned a 3% discount card, and then bought tampons, shampoos and cosmetics, this way you will just suffice a man and he will have a tic while your next call.
Conclusion: you should understand the difference between a girlfriend and a boyfriend. She can discuss everything with you and enjoy such conversations. But a man will definitely find a calmer and more quiet woman.
6. A woman stopped taking care of herself
Yes, appearance is not very important in relationships, nevertheless, you cannot say a man does not look at it. And if he met a smart blonde with wasp waist and elastic breast, and she turned into something shapeless two years later, a man will lose interest for her.
Yes, there are men who like full women. But they search for such women from the beginning.
Conclusion: take care of yourself. Your appearance is in your hands.
7. A woman is clearly using a man as a purse
We like courting women. Besides, we will really invite you to a restaurant with pleasure, buy flowers and expensive jewelry, show our yacht and take to a resort. We want to get not so much for this: love and sex. We would like to underline the first word, as we can buy sex much cheaper.
If a woman is constantly extorting money from a man, rewarding him with evening sex, but shows no love to him, sooner or later he will be tired of it, and you will go without a new fur coat and another necklace.
Conclusion: restrain your ardour. Or, if you want extorting money from a man longer, show him you love him. At least do not tell him you want this blouse of ring straightly. You can just give a hint a diamond necklace and polar fox fur coat are in fashion this winter. And you do not want his business partners thinking he does not care about his wife.
8. A woman is showing her intention to get married
Some women are even ready to become pregnant to marry a man. If a man wants marrying you, you will feel it. But if he is not ready for this at this stage, it’s useless forcing events.
Never offer him sex without contraceptive, otherwise a man will suspect you at once.
9. A woman was unfaithful
A man can forgive many things, almost everything, excepting faithlessness. If this happened, be ready for a break-up after your husband knows about it. You will have no excuses. If you are not satisfied with something, tell him about it. It is better to part in consent, than after scandal.
10. A wife started earning more, than her husband
If big salaries are quite a natural state for a man, due to which he self-affirms in life, for some women this is rather a test. Earning more than her husband, a woman has a constant temptation to reproach him, tell him how bad he is, and that they would live in poverty without her.
Of course, a man will hardy be delighted because of such talks, and sooner or later he will start searching for other woman. And if his salaries correspond to middle level, this will be not so difficult for him.
Conclusion: if you started earning more than your man, be wise. Think how to behave before you do or say something. Do not reproach your husband and develop an inferiority complex in him. Of course, if you value these relationships.
P.S. Forestalling rough comments, like “author is a fool”, “all men are scum”, we note that this article describes facts why men abandon women. Women also have unbiased reasons to part with their partners. But this is another story.