Comments on: Break up with a married man!

By: litia

litia — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 06:50:02 +0000

I am involved too with a married man. Its been 2years now and I love him so much but i think he is playing around with me…. please help

By: Wendy

Wendy — Sun, 30 May 2010 16:29:19 +0000

I have been involved w/a married man for last 6 years. I have loved him w/every ounce of my being. But many broken promises of when he would leave and be with me finally brought me to a place where I was “done”. I reconnected with my “first love” frm high school and have found the kind of man I want to spend my life with. But now that I have pulled back frm the other relationship, the married one “can’t live without me” and is planning to leave his wife and “live happily ever after” with me. This is tearing me apart. This is wat I longed for for so long and now I am broken in to a million pieces. I love the married one and always always will be I feel I need to move on and start living my life without him. How do I do this? Please help…

By: Enna

Enna — Sun, 02 May 2010 05:17:19 +0000

I know exactly how these women feel. I did manage to break-up with my married lover. It was the hardest thing I ever did, after more than 15 years I find myself with tears rolling down my cheeks when I think of him and the pain his lies caused me. I have moved on, married, but still love the snake that cheated on me along with his wife. Not sure why.

By: Devon Johnson

Devon Johnson — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 13:39:29 +0000

If you need a change message back….

By: Rhonda Williams

Rhonda Williams — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 13:33:20 +0000

i have been a lesbian for 30 years now, but i think it’s time for a change. please, anyone?

By: Judy

Judy — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 17:01:16 +0000

I have been with a man for a year now who has left his wife and moved out and lives with his mother but still has not started divorce proceedings, still paying his way in the marital home and offering me carrots all the time - holidays, presents,etc. I really think it’s time to say goodbye - after the NEXT holiday - but how do I do it???Help!!!

By: Amaya

Amaya — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 02:14:45 +0000

Wow! what is going on in this world for all the women to act in such a foolish way. I only reason I can think of is that there is a shortage of men to go around, because of the war!

By: grace

grace — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 22:25:14 +0000

i dont know what to say..i am also on this boat..and im afraid..this is my first time..after my husband died hes my classmates high school days and he told me he likes me even before..and when i am in trouble and alone..hes there to help me..hes so kind and caring..we are so closed until our feelings developed..and then hes wife knew ..she is angry with me cos she is my freind..i know im a traitor..im so sorry for myself..but i alos love him..he does love me too..i dont want him to leave his wife ..for me..dont want that to happen…how can i handle my situation when i miss him….help me…

By: jay

jay — Sat, 02 Feb 2008 04:42:40 +0000

I too have lived the pain and joy of being the mistress. It started as both of us cheating on our marriages. I however left my marriage, he stayed in his. His wife learned of our \”relationship\” many times yet stood beside him not ever considering giving him up. He always ran back to her to make sure she was alright and that his family was in tact, but within a day or two he was back with me. I finally understand that he never really loved me, that the \”amazing connection\” we had was a lie, and I truly feel sorry for his wife. Because, as I have ended this relationship, she is still stuck with a man who will continue to cheat on her, because he can.

By: former mistress

former mistress — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 10:35:38 +0000

I didn’t break up with my married man. He dumped me out of nowhere after two years. One day everything was wonderful and the next he didn’t want me anymore. This article is so true. I thought all of those things…that I didn’t want the problems of a “real” relationship. I got them anyway because I fell in love deeply and now I have nothing. I had the feelings of happiness and sadness at the same time because he made me feel so loved and yet so lonely. I knew from the beginning he would never leave his wife for me. But I never thought things would end like this. He told me he needed me…I was his air…his sunshine. He still has his life and I have nothing but pain. If you’re in one of these relationships…get out. You are wasting valuable years that you could be with someone who wants you and only you. These relationships are a dead end. If you’re thinking about becoming involved with a married man…you should run…not walk…in the other direction.