Ah, darling married men. This topic is so cliched. But, nevertheless, do many of women, who got involved with married men, listen and observe advices, offered to them in various articles and magazines? No. Most women prefer learning by their own mistakes. “He dumped her, but he won’t dump me”, this is the way they are reasoning, and yet: “not all people are the same”, ”he’s good”, “he cannot cheat on me” or just “I love him and that’s all!”. No, this is not all. You don’t love him, but wasting your youth, time, health, and, finally, your feelings, and your freedom. You shouldn’t! Women, who became mistresses of married men, most often, dissapointed in life and love, hopeless to find their only one, honest, darling, loving and careful man, who will never cheat and betray. Isn’t it a dream of all women? And instead of trusting, enjoying life, searching and struggling, she plunges into this maelstrom. May be HE is cheating, but not me, he’s cheating on his wife. HE seems to love me, otherwise why does he spend time with me? HE is careful, tender and loving. Of course, what else should he do? You know, you’re his favorite toy, no, you’re rather a hobby, like, for example, fishing, sauna, friends, beer. HE takes a rest from his family matters with you. And then he returns home, kisses his darling wife and a daughter, son, if he has them, tenderly. HE makes himself comfortable in front of TV, eats his tasty supper, HE enjoys life, having forgotten about you completely. And you are at the same time heatedly happy, as HE presented you so much “love”, and sad, as he’s not with you already. But you hope now HE feels the same, as you do, this way trying to calm yourself down. This repeats every time and this syndrome is called loneliness. You’re lonely, but HE is not. Quite the contrary, HE is happy. It flatters his self-esteem, that you’re loving and waiting for him, and that his wife is also loving and waiting him. And HE won’t break up with her because of you, HE can do it only for his sake, there can be many reasons. Then HE will come to you and, probably, even marry you, what is next to impossible. And will cheat on you. Well, why not, you know, hobby is hobby and he shouldn’t deprive himself of it. What a man HE is, if there’re no fishing, beer with friends and no mistress. That will never happen. You know, HE is a man!And now, ask yourself: do you need this? Are there no other men? And don’t say yourself about big love. And that it suits you, and you’re not going to marry, you don’t need unwanted troubles etc. etc. Stop! Deep in your soul you know that this is not true. And don’t convince yourself of the opposite. And truth is in the fact that you’re afraid. You’re afraid of staying alone again, left with nothing. But you’re alone now too. And HE is not your man and never was and will be yours. Don’t be afraid! I can say you for sure, that if a married man swallowed you, then a singe one will not just swallow, but will just be crazy about you. Because married men don’t need second chop, they need the best to satisfy their ambition, their own significancy. So be brave! Break up with him, don’t feel sorry for him, as he doesn’t feel sorry for you!
Search for that only one, honest, sweet, loving, careful, who will never cheat or betray, but a SINGLE one. And then he will be only yours. And you will never feel this feeling of simultaneous excitement and sadness, which became loathsome long ago. You will become happy, the main thing here is to make up your mind! So, good luck to you, dear women, and down with the married love!