Ah, darling married men. This topic is so cliched. But, nevertheless, do many of women, who got involved with married men, listen and observe advices, offered to them in various articles and magazines? No. Most women prefer learning by their own mistakes. “He dumped her, but he won’t dump me”, this is the way they are reasoning, and yet: “not all people are the same”, ”he’s good”, “he cannot cheat on me” or just “I love him and that’s all!”. No, this is not all. You don’t love him, but wasting your youth, time, health, and, finally, your feelings, and your freedom. You shouldn’t! Women, who became mistresses of married men, most often, dissapointed in life and love, hopeless to find their only one, honest, darling, loving and careful man, who will never cheat and betray. Isn’t it a dream of all women? And instead of trusting, enjoying life, searching and struggling, she plunges into this maelstrom. May be HE is cheating, but not me, he’s cheating on his wife. HE seems to love me, otherwise why does he spend time with me? HE is careful, tender and loving. Of course, what else should he do? You know, you’re his favorite toy, no, you’re rather a hobby, like, for example, fishing, sauna, friends, beer. HE takes a rest from his family matters with you. And then he returns home, kisses his darling wife and a daughter, son, if he has them, tenderly. HE makes himself comfortable in front of TV, eats his tasty supper, HE enjoys life, having forgotten about you completely. And you are at the same time heatedly happy, as HE presented you so much “love”, and sad, as he’s not with you already. But you hope now HE feels the same, as you do, this way trying to calm yourself down. This repeats every time and this syndrome is called loneliness. You’re lonely, but HE is not. Quite the contrary, HE is happy. It flatters his self-esteem, that you’re loving and waiting for him, and that his wife is also loving and waiting him. And HE won’t break up with her because of you, HE can do it only for his sake, there can be many reasons. Then HE will come to you and, probably, even marry you, what is next to impossible. And will cheat on you. Well, why not, you know, hobby is hobby and he shouldn’t deprive himself of it. What a man HE is, if there’re no fishing, beer with friends and no mistress. That will never happen. You know, HE is a man!And now, ask yourself: do you need this? Are there no other men? And don’t say yourself about big love. And that it suits you, and you’re not going to marry, you don’t need unwanted troubles etc. etc. Stop! Deep in your soul you know that this is not true. And don’t convince yourself of the opposite. And truth is in the fact that you’re afraid. You’re afraid of staying alone again, left with nothing. But you’re alone now too. And HE is not your man and never was and will be yours. Don’t be afraid! I can say you for sure, that if a married man swallowed you, then a singe one will not just swallow, but will just be crazy about you. Because married men don’t need second chop, they need the best to satisfy their ambition, their own significancy. So be brave! Break up with him, don’t feel sorry for him, as he doesn’t feel sorry for you!
Search for that only one, honest, sweet, loving, careful, who will never cheat or betray, but a SINGLE one. And then he will be only yours. And you will never feel this feeling of simultaneous excitement and sadness, which became loathsome long ago. You will become happy, the main thing here is to make up your mind! So, good luck to you, dear women, and down with the married love!
34 Responses for "Break up with a married man!"
How do you exactly break up? I have a relationship with a married narscissis who lies and manipulates. I haven’t been able to break it off with him because I feel sorry for him and I can’t do it face to face. My instincts tell me he’s going to mess with my mind and emotions and get another hook in me. It’s like going and having a goodby talk with a poisoness snake.
Please help me join this forum. I need help from someone that does not know me personally.
I am in the same boat. I call him a master manipulator. I think im afraid because of the financial security he brings me. Yes he is going to pull out all stops to keep you. I am trying to break up too. I didn’t answer his calls two days in a row and he shows up at my door. Stupid me opened the door. I couldn’t just leave him outside. I need a 12 step program or a support group. Good luck
I didn’t break up with my married man. He dumped me out of nowhere after two years. One day everything was wonderful and the next he didn’t want me anymore. This article is so true. I thought all of those things…that I didn’t want the problems of a “real” relationship. I got them anyway because I fell in love deeply and now I have nothing. I had the feelings of happiness and sadness at the same time because he made me feel so loved and yet so lonely. I knew from the beginning he would never leave his wife for me. But I never thought things would end like this. He told me he needed me…I was his air…his sunshine. He still has his life and I have nothing but pain. If you’re in one of these relationships…get out. You are wasting valuable years that you could be with someone who wants you and only you. These relationships are a dead end. If you’re thinking about becoming involved with a married man…you should run…not walk…in the other direction.
I too have lived the pain and joy of being the mistress. It started as both of us cheating on our marriages. I however left my marriage, he stayed in his. His wife learned of our \”relationship\” many times yet stood beside him not ever considering giving him up. He always ran back to her to make sure she was alright and that his family was in tact, but within a day or two he was back with me. I finally understand that he never really loved me, that the \”amazing connection\” we had was a lie, and I truly feel sorry for his wife. Because, as I have ended this relationship, she is still stuck with a man who will continue to cheat on her, because he can.
i dont know what to say..i am also on this boat..and im afraid..this is my first time..after my husband died hes my classmates high school days and he told me he likes me even before..and when i am in trouble and alone..hes there to help me..hes so kind and caring..we are so closed until our feelings developed..and then hes wife knew ..she is angry with me cos she is my freind..i know im a traitor..im so sorry for myself..but i alos love him..he does love me too..i dont want him to leave his wife ..for me..dont want that to happen…how can i handle my situation when i miss him….help me…
Wow! what is going on in this world for all the women to act in such a foolish way. I only reason I can think of is that there is a shortage of men to go around, because of the war!
I have been with a man for a year now who has left his wife and moved out and lives with his mother but still has not started divorce proceedings, still paying his way in the marital home and offering me carrots all the time - holidays, presents,etc. I really think it’s time to say goodbye - after the NEXT holiday - but how do I do it???Help!!!
i have been a lesbian for 30 years now, but i think it’s time for a change. please, anyone?
If you need a change message back….
I know exactly how these women feel. I did manage to break-up with my married lover. It was the hardest thing I ever did, after more than 15 years I find myself with tears rolling down my cheeks when I think of him and the pain his lies caused me. I have moved on, married, but still love the snake that cheated on me along with his wife. Not sure why.
I have been involved w/a married man for last 6 years. I have loved him w/every ounce of my being. But many broken promises of when he would leave and be with me finally brought me to a place where I was “done”. I reconnected with my “first love” frm high school and have found the kind of man I want to spend my life with. But now that I have pulled back frm the other relationship, the married one “can’t live without me” and is planning to leave his wife and “live happily ever after” with me. This is tearing me apart. This is wat I longed for for so long and now I am broken in to a million pieces. I love the married one and always always will be I feel I need to move on and start living my life without him. How do I do this? Please help…
I am involved too with a married man. Its been 2years now and I love him so much but i think he is playing around with me…. please help
I think you woman should be assamed of yourselves. My husband left me for his mistress. When he moved out of my house and left his 2 month old and 2 yr. old kids and then married the mistriss. You do not know how you ladies look, like whores and will always be home wreckers.
sarah, ur husband met a wrong and wicked woman
WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stop nonses, stand on your feet married men will remain married they will use a playing toy. Stop hurting each other my fellow women.
I am sitting here not knowing how to do this.
I am with the same guy for the last 6 years, he’s married. We started the relationship as a fling. I was married and actually divorced my ex over this man two years ago.
I love him to death but have watched him with her, the gifts, vacations, parties etc over and over and it is killing me.
I should mention we are both in out late forties now.
He cries everytime I try to break up, I cant do it. It’s partially because I dont want her to win.
Over the last 6 years I was there for him, did everything for him. I was the perfect mistress.
We travelled together, he would travel on business and I would save up enough to travel with him.
All the while he would still be taking BIG vacations with her all over the freaken world.
Worst thing is.. I figured out his password and now I see daily the things he’s planned with her and it kills me.
I dont want this anymore, but dont want him with her either. I almost feel like making my own facebook page and posting all of OUR pictures. I am tired of being the hidden one while she gets the best of him.
I guess the only way I would get him is if she threw him out, but then would I really want him. That would make me second choice??!!
Uggggggggggh I am dying here. Help.
You’re all weak, ladies. Does it hurt? So it should, the price you’re paying for being silly & inconsiderate for the married man’s wife & children. Can’t bear the pain of leaving him? Bite the bullet, luv! Wake up, darling, this is life in its all beauty. I was involved with a married man for 1.5 year but slapped myself on the wrist when I realized how selfish I was and how deeply I could potentially hurt another woman & innocent kids. Since I’m trying to be supportive of all fellow females, I ditched my shallow competitiveness & complete & utter selfishness & dumped the cheating twit. But then again, I’m stronger than all of you altogether & I pride myself on that. Prove me otherwise, ladies, care for the number one. That is yourself!
Samantha, you are the perfect example of unhealthy competition that destroys females all over the world. Your are definitely trying to prove you’re somehow better than her to make yourself feel better. But the fact is, you’re everything than better. In fact, you are merely the same, you’re equal & I suggest you take off your rose-tinted glasses & use your brain for what it was designed to do - a little bit of thinking. Another problem with you is lack of maturity & child-like selfishness. You simply have not grown-up yet. You may look like an adult, but emotionally you’re still an adolescent. I also suggest a therapy that would rebuild your horribly low self-esteem.
Hello ladies…I’m in the same boat as most of you. I’ve been in a “relationship” with a married man for 2 1/2 years now. We’ve broken up and immediately gotten back together again (many times). I am madly and deeply in love with him. At the same time, I also realize how he manipulates and uses me for his own selfish purposes. I’m ready to get out. It’s just terribly difficult. However, I know that it’s the right thing to do. No more listening to his lies and empty promises. No more sitting alone waiting for him to call or stop by. No more living with the pain and guilt of knowing that I’m ruining a marriage and the lives of 3 children (as well as 2 of my own). I’m not proud of what I’ve done. I am far from perfect, however, I realize the error of my ways and want to change for the better. I guess that I just needed to put it out there for someone else to read. That way, it makes it more “real” for me.
To all of you who bash women who are in love with married men, I would wager that there are quite a few skeletons in your closet as well. So I would strongly suggest that you take a look in the mirror and fix what you see before you attempt to judge others based on your “morality.” Judgement is reserved for God, and God alone. Don’t you think we know what others must think of us? The names you call us and the hatred you spew at us is nothing compared to the guilt and shame that we live with on a daily basis. So save your breath. Those who live in glass houses should not cast stones. And it appears to me that we have a neighborhood of glass homes here. Instead, try being understanding and supportive to women who have lost their way and are attempting to find some sense of direction.
Just my story and my two cents worth… Good luck, ladies!
hi ,i have an affair wit a maried man for a year now,he said he gona leave his wife for me,he said he need a little time to leave her.but i know in my heart that he is not gona leave her,i realy wana break up with him but i dnt know wer to start,i realy love him but i have to get my own man,i have to let go of him,please help me i realy wana end up this affair,where do i start
Michelle, I know how you feel. I was in an affair with a married man for 5 years. His children have all grown now and he still refuses to leave.
They rarely do. At first this affair worked for me because i was separated but when my ex died, leaving me free, it changed.
The best advise i have had is to walk away. No contact. Not even friends. It really hurts alot at first, but as the days go on you begin to realize that you don’t need him as much as he needed you. You are free to go and live your life with no restraints and he is not.
Find things to keep your mind busy and off of him, take a class, for fun or for education, volunteer, walk, jog, garden. Anything that you enjoy and makes you happy. You deserve it. oh yeah remind yourself everyday that you deserve better than someone who lies and cheats, because if he lied to her and he lied to you, he will always be a liar and who needs that? Best of luck. you can do it.
To the woman who are lashing out at these women. Ask yourself why are you going after these women? jealousy? envy? anger that should be directed at your cheating husband?
The women here are not to blame. These men do not take no for an answer. I can not tell you how many times the one i was with and i broke up. I would not talk to him for even a year at a time and he always found a way to contact me, even after i moved.
The men are to blame here, they are bored at home, you are a busy wife and perhaps mother and these selfish little boys don’t want to share your attention so they go looking for some elsewhere. Once they find what they want and need, and trust me they exploit women terribly, they want to stick with it no matter what. who wants to break in another person? This one is better than a wife, you don’t have to listen to her, put up with her family and friends, take her places, be there for birthdays, holidays. They are perfect. There is no way they will accept them walking away.
Before you throw another women under the bus, think about who has the most to gain by cheating? the guy or the woman he is lying to? Another thing you should know, many of these men, mine included, tell women they are not married and it is not until they are involved with them that the issue comes up. Go on the dating sites, most of those men are married, It is absolutely disgusting. You don’t dare even talk to a guy cause chances are he is married and lying about it.
I think this site is for woman seeking help falling in love with married men….not for wives to bash. If you were the perfect wife your husbands wouldnt be looking elsewhere. I was cheated on and I was also with a married man. His wife never told him she loved him first….never initiated sex with him. I am the perfect woman to the man I am having the affair with, yet I am the cold wife to my husband who cheated on me. Bottom line is people fall out of love, lose the passion and go elsewhere. I can tell you women one thing though if his kids are not grown he is never leaving his wife. “One day babe”, “We have to plan babe we cant rush this” “I love you more then anyone I have ever loved” its all lies…wake up and smell the coffee….he is not leaving!!!!! He has his cake and he is eating it to why leave??
Ugh. And that pretty much describes my state of mind at the moment. I have recently been “broken up with” by a married but separated man and I am sleepwalking thru my days and nights.
We have known each other six months. We met online through a website for booklovers, no less. He currently lives and works in Bermuda, his wife resides in the UK. They have three children, two of the older ones are at boarding school there, the youngest (seven) is in the UK with her mother.
Long story short: he said his marriage was floundering…that his wife had told him she loved him, but was not in love with him. She (apparently) told him that he should find someone else. He is a very successful man (lawyer)…he and I began emailing in January…this soon progressed to phone calls, text messages, and invariably, phone sex (yes, I know, I know)…about halfway thru all of this, they tell the children they are legally separating and remove their wedding rings. He says “We do not want to stay together for the sake of the children”…they take a skiing holiday with the children before this announcement. He is devastatated at first, at the children’s reaction (he keeps me informed of all that is happening).
Soon after this, the revelation that his wife is reading a book about “I love you but I’m not in love with you”…and I begin to feel the metaphorical nail in the coffin of my “relationship” with him. He says he is in love with me (he said it first actually)…he says he wants to have a better understanding of his head and heart, etc…
We agree, after six months of emotional intensity, to meet…this past week, he flies from Bermuda, to see me, on the east coast of the US. We spend two hours kissing passionately, he tells me he has always dreamt of being kissed in this way. He says he wants to “woo” me…he brought recipes with him of things we could cook. He has booked a room at a local bed and breakfast and spends the first night there, but the next day, we go shopping for ingredients for our dinner which he cooks for me later that evening. He buys me flowers.
Later in the day, we have our “siesta” and I give him oral sex (something he claimed his wife had NEVER done in their entire marriage as she did not find it “palatable”)…he says that I have given him the most intense orgasm of his life. He spends the night, we do not have sex (I was having my period and having just “met” him in a physical sense, did not feel comfortable doing this)…
The next morning, he does the dishes, brings me breakfast in bed, and returns to the B&B to shower and have breakfast. I join him there later (its very close to where I live)…he then proceeds to tell me that he just does not have the “spark” for me in his heart that he thought he would, that he just is, in his words, “Not feeling it in the way that I hoped I would”…and so, in less than 48 hours, I have been wooed, given him the most intense orgasm of his life and now, he is saying that there is “no spark”…his flight was scheduled to leave the next day at 5pm; he maintains an emotional stoicism saying he is sorry and then, later, breaks down sobbing admitting that he still is in love with his wife and can not divide his heart.
He says he does not “love me enough” and that “I don’t love you to the exclusion of others” and yet, he contradicts himself by saying, “If it were just you and I we could work thru these complications”…he said at one point, “I could see the virtue of having a mistress as it would be the best sex of my life but I can not do that with you and I won’t do that with you”…he says in the next breath, “I need more time” and then “We should have never met”…I told him I would change my number when he suggested that we still keep in touch. in three months time to see if he can put his marriage back together.
So, my question is: what do I believe? Did he ever care about me? Was he, in fact, in love with me but perhaps scared of his feelings for me and so said that he wasn’t feeling the connection in his heart? Do I believe that? Or, was he just using me all along (its a hell of a lot of trouble to go to just for some oral sex isn’t it, I keep thinking?)…
He has devastated me. I keep thinking its because I wasn’t pretty enough, smart enough, good enough even tho I know it is ridiculous to think so. I have contact numbers for him in Bermuda and the UK but have not contacted him nor do I plan to do so. He brought me housewarming gifts (I recently moved) and now I feel as tho I need to send them back as I want no reminders of him. He was so harsh and emotionally cold and unresponsive to me on Friday when all of this occurred. He said he felt “uncomfortable” because he couldn’t say “I love you” to me…what am I to believe about all of this?!
My head is absolutely spinning with questions and the level of rejection I am feeling is so very intense it is all I can do to function.
Any thoughts and or advice would be most appreciated, thank you.
well, i am in the same situation. Had an affair with a married man and broke up. I know it was bad, but i got the love i expected from a man. I did it considering his wife. I felt sorry for her and walked away from him while he was crying. Am I happy now??? No way! I die in every second. Am burning inside. Am I paying for what I have done to his wife??? No. I lost a wonderful life, a wonderful man, a wonderful love i will never have again. where is that “honest, sweet, loving, careful, who will never cheat or betray, but a SINGLE one”??????? Is he available in the market or can hang a board ‘I am looking for ……….” on my neck and stand on the roadside??? i never met such a man even b4 i met him. Will I meet in the future??? What I have to say is that I did a sacrifice and now I am suffering a lot. It’s true I wouldn’t have had a future with him if i had been with him either. Am I mad?????
Hey, michelle. tell him that you are in a trouble and u need some money from him (may be 10000$). i am sure he won’t help. this way you can easily break up. Believe me.
Each tear and every hour I lay staring into space nightly…the steps into the office that make me sick to my stomach (we work together)each glare from my coworkers, each panic attack, and every piece of my heart that is in pieces…that is my repayment back for my mistake. How/why I did it is besides the point. I was his second, he my first and last MM…his indifference is my repayment to his wife. I can’t focus on karma for him or telling her…I have a feeling they will always be together. He learned from me…not to say “I love you” he will be much more careful next time. I don’t need to be kicked when I’m down, I just need hope and strength for all that lies ahead, I need to know that loving a MM is the ultimate mistake. Wise woman out there that have overcome all this, please tell me I will hold my head up once again, that he’s Good-bye was a gift from up above. That I can leave all this behind and never look back…and stand strong.
hello ladies, I finally got the strength to break up with my married man, I felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest repeatedly. How could things have changed and I wasn’t in on the change, but I felt every bit of it, I just didn’t want to believe. I thought because I treated him better, I would win, NOT. It got to the point where I didn’t have enough strength to fight a battle I kept losing. Karma is a bitch, and Im paying for every bit of my actions because I could have and should have walked away the first day he approached. Im learning a hard lesson. I never thought I would put myself in a predicament like this. Now Im cryin like someone died. I just want to feel normal again. Its been almost two weeks, why do I feel like crap still, I NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO
Ok so I have finally had it! So my situation is pretty bad. I had a baby with a married man we have been messing around for about 8 Years but have been “Together” for about 5. He stays with me the majority if the time. Very rarely does he go to his house where his mother and there wife live! Picture that! He thinks im stupid like I don’t know she lives there. I can’t take it no more. We barely ever touch eachother anymore. We went to the Poconos and spent only one hour out of the three days ……….. So what did we go for?!!! He used to be really controlling but every since i had my so he has loosened up a bit. But he’s not considerate at all to my time my Childs time my money and anything else that has to do with us. We always come last and he’s never around. I’m always stuck in the house with this baby and i am going crazy…… I guess i just needed to tell someone other than myself because im embarrassed to tell anyone.
I too am getting over a relationship with a married man. I have been seeing him for a year, but have known him for 3. I knew what i was getting myself into. I was a virgin at the time and wanted experience, and so he was available for me sexually. Hde was someone I was comfortable with. An since, he kept throwing himself at me, i guess he wore me down. His kindness made me pity him, so one day I just gave in to a weakness. I tried to save myself for marriage by taking a traditional approach…. but this guy was sooooooo different. He made me trust him. By that I mean, I dont trust him, I just trust myself with him. I was able to be myself and open up and tell him things about myself. I am very beautiful physically, and other SINGLE men come after me. But I chose this bastard bc i am a sucker for his kind personality. He doesnt give me anything monetarily. If that means anything… All I know is that he owes me a lot financially… so I am on the losing end here…We just decided on it just being sexual bc i thought of it as a learning experience and that no feelings would get involved. BUt the more I stayed with him, I knew he was a player,he told me about everything. He led me into a world of pure sexual gratification. Into a very dark and highly volatile sexual fantasy that I never in my wildest dreams could have ever experienced with guys my age. The excitement was amazing. I never knew sex would be so good, but after being accustomed to his sexual prowess, I realized that the fantasy was just that… We had sex everywhere safe… We had threesomes, foursomes… with different women…objects… we had sex in crazy places… performed amazing positions… kama sutra style… meaning everything!!!!… I mean if I was going to go to Hell, I wanted to go DEEP…He is the DEVIL and I knew I was already in Hell because I slept with him, so I just went ALL the WAY. The sex is amazing. Though the more I have sex with him, I do see his sexual inadequacies, IE, he needs a bigger dick and needs to lose weight… I tell him what I like, and he does everything… bondage, going down on me, role play, etc… He has created a sexual freak… Yet I have never slept with any other man since I have been with him. I guess I am a sucker for ME being loyal…then I remind myself, how can I know if there is anyone better to gauge the amazing sex… I mean considering he is the only guy I am having sex with… So plain and simple, he is being SELFISH because I cannot grow in any relationship if I am with him. Its true,he has more to gain from being in a relationship with me. I really only see it as sex, but the more times I have sex with him, my feelings get confused at it especially when he brings up the word LOVE.. or having babies with me… or marrying me… pure bull shit really… but the more I hear it, again, I fantasize about the why not? It is a ridiculous thought to even entertain. But I just like hearing it. I may not believe it but I appreciate the words. He was the first one to tell me he loved me. I never said it. HE says it when he is drunk. He says it sober every time he communicates with me. He says it while we have sex. I just shut up. It is like he is forcing me to say it whenever he looks at me. SO I complied, which was very uncomfortable. With me, if I love you, I am going to be with you and have sex with you and not expect anything other than ur love. With him, I think he keeps saying it over and over that he loves me but he never shows me that he does. I know he cares, but LOVE? I doubt it. I do feel and know it is a dead end. But I think bc he feeds my loneliness and he brings me to a dark side that I never felt before. IT is very addicting. I have been reading nonstop how to end these affairs. I even try to analyze my actions daily. I keep myself busy by being productive in other things. But then like I said it is addictive. I havent seen in in 3 months. HE continues to be clingy. I tried the dating scene with other great and fun SINGLE men, but I couldnt open to them. The only person I could trust with my feeling is a married man. Its tragic. I know. Bc I dont trust men. And the man I trust is a man I would never trust having. And then when a guy == potential good guy comes my way, I block him and am not reciprocating his feelings, I feel terrible. And I know the reason why I feel terrible is because I have feelings for the married guy and my heart cannot divide so easily unless I clean my shit up. I told him this last night. I told him to stop contacting me. I told him to leave me alone. I just have this feeling that I will never find a man who loves me bc I cant trust men no matter what. The married guy kept sweet talking me and being soooo kind and understanding, but my guts were telling me he is lying to me… and thats probably the reason why I stay with him bc I KNOW he is a liar and a cheat. I knew that. I never wanted him to leave his wife, and I just accepted him. But he is making it difficult by bringing up his feelings when I dont bring up any of mine. I am trying my best to follow the advice Ive read online, like cutting off ties… which I did… when I stopped seeing him… I am too embarassed of myself. He brought me to a dark place an immoral place that I am not proud of. He is using me for my beauty, youth, and smarts. I only wanted to use him for sex, bc he made me so comfortable and he makes my time with him fun and exciting and loving… but I know it is just temporary and I dont want that. I want him to tell me… I am a bitch for ignoring him… that way it would be easier to let go. But it never is…. he just stays the same. He is kind… very kind to me… but I know I cannot have his heart 100% and my deepest fear is that when I do find a great SINGLE guy I wouldnt know how to love him bc I stole someone elses love.
To all women out there. Please do not trust the married men. They are all big lier. When they go out to seek for sex, they usually do not wear their wedding rings. Some will lie to you that they have been divorce. They will do everything for you until they find another younger woman than they will treat you cold so that you will leave him by yourself so that he can be with the new woman that he just met. They even rent a small apartment to bring you over and have sex with you but he has his house and wife live some where else. So do not let him fool you and think he is single and live in that small apartment. They always keep one place for their private sex activities.
I am olga and have involve with a mm man for years. At the beginning he told me he has been divorce. I did believe him and later on I found out he has more then 3 mistresses and me beside his wife. He himself has a place for him to bring mistreese over for sex. It looks like he lives there but is not. So do not let him to fool you girls. Some men will bring you to their friend apartment and lie to you that he is sharing an apartment with frieds so that you will offer him to come to your place so that he did not have to pay for the hotel.
I hope you all have to be smart when you meet a new man.
Take care
Hello ladies!i had an affair with a married for only three months but i fell in love with him.i’m also married.i know it was also my fault for being vulnerable and finding happiness outside of my marriage.he broke up with me because he went back to his wife.he was having a troubled marriage.now,we stayed friends but I’m having a hard time moving on because I’m still in love with him.I need help.thanks
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